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The Biggest Decision: order or tradition

My son will see the Star Wars movies in a couple of years and I am faced with the biggest question of my life. Do I have him watch them in their release order that I saw them in (episodes 4-6, then 1-3) OR do I show him them in their chronological order?

I am torn. Seeing the story of young Luke, Han and Leia was a nice introduction to Star Wars. Seeing them in their release order gives me a sense of continuity.

But the story is ultimately about the redemtion of the father by the son. Seeing the fall of Anakin gives greater meaning to episode 4. When you see grown Luke and Lea, and the anger filled Vader, you understand their history. You also empathize with Vader. He is driven by pain and anger. If you don’t know what he has been thru, then he is just the bad guy in the black helmet.

Any help is appreciated.

We like gays, just not married gays.

(I still believe in equality – by “we” I mean the population of the US)

A report from this summer at gallup.com reveals that Americans, on the whole, think that homosexuality is acceptable, and that we should not discriminate against them in the workplace, but apparently marriage is right out.

Man, I love polls.

Classical Confession

I have to confess, my limited knowledge of classical music and opera is informed mostly by Bugs Bunny cartoons. Seriously, I learned all I know about the Barber of Seville or Ride of the Valkyries on Sunday morning.

But I this ignorance has gone TOO FAR! This morning, when having a lovley brunch, the classical guitarist played Beethoven’s Fur Elise, and all I could think of is Jack Black’s Classico.

Cause when you rule, you fucking school,
All of the fools, out of their jewels
Cause if you think it’s time to,
If you think it’s time to,
If you think it’s time to fucking rooooock!

That is just a sad state of affairs.

The memory span of the black community?

43 years ago the civil rights act legally banned racial prejudice in the United States. 43 years later the black community has gone from fighting bigotry, and prejudice to taking the role of the bigot.

An Asociated Press poll indicated that seven in ten black voters in California voted to deny gays equal rights under the law thru the passage of Prop 8.

I am shocked that the black community could be so ruthlessly hypocritical. The shame those 7 in 10 should feel.

So 43 years, eh? I guess that’s how long it takes for one community to forget about it’s epic struggle to achieve civil right. To forget what it means to be held down. To be denied. To forget how much prejudice hurts people.

Might I remind us that 40 years ago it would have been against the law for Barak Obama’s parents to marry. And now the people who are celebrating the election of the first black man to office, on the same day helped deny another group of people the very same freedoms that they stuggled for 40 years ago.

The irony is overwhelming.

I’d say it myself, but Keith says it so much better…

We suffer from chronic 9/11itis.

Shortly after 9/11, many of my friends developed what I called acute 9/11itis. People that were once rational, thoughtful individuals were transformed overnight into raving hawks, hellbent on blowing something… ANYTHING, up!

For most people, the crippling effects wore off quickly. Rationality set in and people realized that running off like Rambo without a jock strap might not be the best way to respond. Now, I won’t suggest that the US should not go after enemies that are committing crimes against it. I am merely suggesting that there are many ways to win the “war on terror”.

But some people never recovered, and their acute case became chronic. Symptoms seem to include wild swings toward the political right, a sudden need to join the NRA, a blinding support for any military action proposed by President Bush, and a sudden urge to be born again.

But the most unsettling symptom seems to be a deep seated fear. A fear that cripples their rationality, and fills them with righteous anger. This fear is a lever that seems to enable the US leadership to limit our civil rights, wiretap our phone calls, and set up offshore detention centers.

I know there are books full of psychological diseases. Is there an official name for this one?

How bad is it?

As the years go by, I realize more and more that I give my fellow man waaaay too much credit. Apparently I live in a protective bubble away from all the self-obsessed and un-compassionate people.

The most recent wake up call came as I watched the movie “Lord of War.” Now I know that this movie is an exaggeration, but it is based on a real story. I marveled as the main character showed a total lack of ability to extend his actions beyond himself. He completely failed to see how his own actions contributed to a more violent and brutal world.

Now you may say “come on John” not everyone is selling AK-47s to African counties to fuel civil wars.” I’d have to agree with you. But we live in a nation where people can’t connect their actions to the state of the nation and the world.

People fail to connect their gigantic, gas-guzzling SUVs with climate change and dependence on foreign oil. They fail to see how their over consumption and their buying patterns are affecting our economy, our environment and our future.

Tell me I’m wrong. Please.

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Who Did You Think You Were Voting For?

George W Bush can now officially be called the “Best Worst President Ever” has broken the US Presidential approval rating record for the the lowest approval rating ever. 19%! (He also holds the highest disapproval rating) The amazing thing is that he even beat out Richard Nixon after he was shown to be a criminal.

In the case of Nixon, I can image that the Republican party felt betrayed and let down. Their commander in chief revealed as a petty criminal. I can see why his approval rating fell to 24%.

But who exactly did the people who voted for Bush think they were voting for? What did he do that was unexpected? As far as I can see, he did exactly what he has been doing since he was elected.

Perplexed.

Our Country Needs Lasik

When people are young their eyes are strong and flexible. They stretch to see the world world as it is. But as people grow older, their eyeballs get tired and inflexible. Good vision diminishes and we need help to see clearly.

I would like to propose that this same thing happens to our minds. As minds get older, they get tired and inflexible. They can’t see the world clearly. This causes people to start making bad decisions.

Now it seems that this is happening to our country. Our national and political short-sightedness has gotten us into trouble. We are massively in debt as the biggest generation in history slides into retirement. We are in wars where we shouldn’t be. We buy expensive houses that we don’t need. We drive cars that make ruin the environment and force us to have a national interest in the Persian Gulf.

Thinking requires flexibility because the outcome of our thought sometimes forces us to change our minds.

We need to remain flexible and capable of change. We need to let go of our fear. We need lasik surgery, on a personal level and a national level

Sparkle

I know that life is short and that I need to bring a sense of wonder to every moment, but sometimes I get buried and everything becomes gray. It may stay that way for some time, but inevitably something makes me look up and I see once again that everything is magic.

A glorious sunset. A beautiful silence. The smell of flowers. A cold hollow followed by a warm hilltop. A song sung by my boy. A smile from my love. The world, peacefully sleeping. The smell of fresh bread or beer.

These things make me deeply happy. The kind of happy that starts on the inside and comes out. Lately these feelings of joy and wonder have brought me to tears – and everything that I see sparkles.